Answer

Gretchen you did it!!! The correct answer is orange. Congrats!

Wacky Wednesday Trivia

What fruit is depicted in Leonardo's Last Supper, even though it did not arrive in the Holy Land until long after Jesus' death?

HE brings you to it, HE brings you through it

What a load?

Let me first say that I am not underestimating the POWER of my God - I know He can orchestrate anything He wants to in my life - He can move mountains or move me. 

So, why do I sometimes then insist on staying right where I am?

It's not something I talk about much anymore (or even think about to be honest). 
If I do, people accuse me of hanging on to the past, harboring hate and anger, or even sinning against God. 

Call it what you want. 

But if I am honest with you, I still struggle with the breakdown of my position at NWUMC.  I realize that most other people (especially those who were involved) would like to just "move on" with life and pretend as if nothing happened.

Well I am here to tell you that: Something Did Happen.

Quite possibly the biggest heartbreak I have ever felt happened.

I was disrespected, treated as if I were disposable, not shown any grace or mercy.

I felt broken down, beaten up, and abandoned by so many people in my life.

Since then it has been easier for most people to pretend that we are acquaintances at best.  To act like my behavior is reaction to something that never occurred.  That it would be better for all of us if I just admit that I was over-reacting, misinterpreting, telling lies, or just being emotional.

I am emotional.  But you know, I am also done with it.  I have seen my parents, siblings, and other close family members and friends lose something through all of this.  I have seen them go through some of the same trials that I did; right along with me and in some ways on there own as well.

And learn, we must.  My Dad always taught me to look at a situation and ask yourself: will this affect me in a week, a month, a year.  I believe it will, but not negatively. 

So, what have I learned? 
How can I move through this positively.

- First and Foremost, I have learned that God loves me as much as He says He does. 

That He is working in me. 

- The true definition of family isn't something that can be verbalized.  It's a feeling, a look, a pat on the leg or a hug that lasts a little longer.  It's defending the person you love in ways no one could ever imagine.  That my family has a love that I am not sure anyone else could feel.  The way we support each other unites us in a way that no one can break us completely down.  That my parents are people of incredible charecter, integrity and respect; they have the capacity to love like no other humans I know.

- That healing is more than a single decision.  It's one that has to be made everyday. 

- That some people aren't who you think they are.

- That forgiveness is hard.

- That each one of us is responsible only for our own behavior.

- That I never want anyone to feel like I don't consider their thoughts, feelings, or life as invalid.  No matter what situations I may face for the rest of my days on this Earth, I will try to be sure that I never cause the pain that I felt.

- But it seems the theme that sticks out the most to me is that people are just that, people.  We all make mistakes, we all can sometimes choose to look past someone else's fear and pain ... too afraid that it will make us hurt too. 

So be scared, I won't do it.  Hurt, I will, deeply and terrifyingly...I will let myself feel pain and heartache.  It makes me human, it helps me heal.  And as I move forward from here, more days I will choose to forgive the people that I feel have done wrong or caused the pain.  By the Grace of God, I will choose to forgive, with the Love of Christ, I will learn to love even those that my human heart couldn't possibly dream of loving.

Answer

Heather you are starting to dominate!  You're correct the answer is Thomas Edison...wonder what the trivia question will be about me after I die.

Potential Monica Trivia Questions:
1. Who watched the equivalence of one FRIENDS episode for each day of her life?
2. Who owned enough bags/purses to carry a new one each day of any given month?
3. Who got married and sent a kid to college in the same year?

The one I hope for:
1. Who spent her entire life serving Christ and those around her?

Wacky Wednesday Trivia

so it's late, but it's here.

Who averaged one patent for every three weeks of his life?

Holy busy

**Disclaimer: this is not an excuse for blogging although it is the reason(s) that it hasn't been happening for me.  I would promise that I will get better except next week is VBS at Warsaw First.  So maybe after that, I make no promises :)

So it's been a whirlwind at the Lyon house.  A lot of excitement and tons of Ministry going on...I get tired just thinking about all of the things we have accomplished in the last few weeks.

Last week I worked hard to get lots of stuff done at United Way because I was all set to take Monday, June 13th off for the arrival of Baby Harkenrider.  (I guess I can say her name now that she's here)  Well Sweet Madeline Sue had different plans!  I got a text from Leanne on Thursday night (about 9 pm) that she was getting ready for a c-section to deliver that precious girl.  I told Mike and his immediate response was, "So that means we are driving to the hospital?".  You got it Mike!  We quickly finished eating dinner, changed and were on the road in a few minutes.  It seemed to take forever to get to the hospital and we prayed and I giggled the whole way. 

She was a precious peanut and I was blessed to get to spend time with Leanne and Madeline at the hospital on Friday.  LOVE.HER!  (Madeline, that is well and Leanne, but in that order - sorry Lee she is just too precious!)

Then it was off to the races to begin the Lyon Graduation Extravaganza.  I hit up Wal-Mart on my way home and then picked up some pizzas and went to the church to set up for Katie's graduation party. 

The graduation this year was moved (due to snow days - thanks Indiana weather) and so it was held on Saturday morning.  I was all fine and dandy until Katie hugged my Dad (he's the President of the school board, so they were congratulating the students) and then I lost it, I turned to Mike and said, "Ok, I am gonna cry now."  I have heard people talking about how much they love their kids - I am so blessed to be able to feel that now with Katie and Ashley.  I was/am so proud of her!!!

Then it was off to the church to start the food for the party.  We had my mom and Linda (a friend from church) helping us get the party ready and refilling the food and drinks as needed.  Katie had lots of people come and visit her.  And she was blessed with some thoughtful gifts and money (which will help her as she gets ready for Ball State).  I realize now how close that move for her is, and I get tears in my eyes just thinking about it.  I am so excited for her to experience college, to grow and learn, but dang it - I will miss her!

On Sunday I am pretty sure I cried when Mike said it was time to get up for church.  In the summer we have three services at Warsaw First, whew it makes for a long morning.  But everytime I think about taking a Sunday off I get sad and I really dislike when my regular kids don't come on a given Sunday.

After church I took a little power nap and then it was time for bi-monthly grocery shopping :)  This time without Leanne :(  Although I got my Madeline fix afterwards cause Mike and I crashed their homecoming day party and held that sweet pea for a while.  Did I mention that I just love her?

OH, and I forget to mention in all the baby news, graduation awesomeness that another person in our family is on the road now!!  Ash got her license on Friday, it's great for her to be able to get herself around but also adds a little more gray hair to our heads.  Very proud of her!

Whew, ok I am officially tired :)  Gotta power through the next 11 days and then maybe take a little time to recoop.  Good thing God promises to be everywhere with us - cause we are all over!  Love it though and such good things happening, I can't help but feel SO.BLESSED.

A winner, an apology and an excuse

Hey cyber world!  Sorry I went MIA.  For those of you who didn't know, I spent the night at the church last Friday night at the church with some students!  I started the night at the skating rink (don't think I have been on roller skates for about 10 years!) with 32 kids and then went back to the Connection for pizza, movies, and games.  We had a blast, but I was really busy right before and then really tired afterwards. 

Ok so there is my apology and excuse.

Now for the winner.....HEATHER!  I will get a hold of you at church sometime.  I promise I will post again soon, I have a few in the works.  And a potential guest blogger that is very exciting!

Wacky Wednesday Trivia

Ok, so Memorial Day weekend got the best of me and I haven't posted For.Ev.Er.  I will be better I promise.  To hold yourself over, try to answer this correctly...

The actor who played Jack Geller in FRIENDS was once married to which superstar?